I dated J Cole off-and-on for a couple of months. We met on instagram, he liked one of my pictures and we started talking from there. Two months later he flew me out to visit him in New York, after some conversation, but before he sent me the ticket, he made it clear to me that I needed to be f*cking. I thought it was tacky for him to say that to me because I thought we were friends. But I told him I was ready & he sent me a coach-class ticket.
