Please I need your advice: My Hubby's demands are weird

Please I need your advice. My husband is the dearest thing in this world I've ever had! He's so different from most other guys: intelligent, funny, handsome, very muscular and well-built, and is an amazing person.

Please put yourself in my Shoes, what would you do ?

I have been seeing this guy  for 9 months and in those 9 months, all the time we'd s3x, it was unprotected. In reality I was the main one who always insisted he used protection to prevent any issues. He always claimed to have carried away. I didn't wish to be too pushy on the condom matter because we're both inside our 30s and we were taking a look at something serious. I once teased him saying “imagine if I got pregnant” and his reply was that there clearly was no better time than now. I was still being careful and tried to take contraceptives to prevent issues.

My wife found out I was cheating & said nothing. Should I be worried?

My spouse heard bout a couple of weeks ago that I’m having an affair but hasn’t said a phrase about any of it to me. She knows I understand that she knows that I’ve a partner but she’s refused to confront me about it. Should I panic or its nothing to be worried about? What worries me about this really is that she’s an extremely confrontational person, I wonder why she didn’t address this. - See more at: http://ooduarere.com/naija-gist/my-wife-found-out-iam-having-an-affair-said-nothing-should-i-be-worried/#sthash.K4cFQRA2.dpuf