Every gentleman realizes that its not a simple deed to effectively approach and woo a woman. Indeed, even the most certain of gentlemen normally need to “accumulate confidence” before doing the needful.
This could come from the fact that you don’t know what the result of the move you’re about making may be. Another reason is the trepidation of dismissal, no one needs to feel disparaged or like a looser kind of. We are all made with a feeling of self-esteem and we long for appreciation and respect which is ok.
On the other hand, society has made it look like a gentleman who can’t approach a woman is not a “genuine man”. Such a fellow is derided by companions, relatives and even the female people. As an aftereffect of this utter joke and keeping in mind the end goal to experience the desire of the general public, gentlemen think of some interesting reasons to safeguard themselves furthermore to expel their psyche from attempting to approach women.
The following are a portion of the reasons guys give themselves as well as other people for their powerlessness to approach ladies.
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1) Naija girls are gold diggers:
I’m certain you’ve heard or perused a lot of guys make such remarks. They be like to “Naija ladies too like cash jare, in the event that you no get cash overlook am!” The fact of the matter is that this is not a legitimate reason by any means. Regardless of your level of financial power, there is dependably a lady out there who will accept and like you the way you are. you don’t have to have cash to discover love anyplace, other than I know some truly poor gentlemen dating rich chicks and notwithstanding eating from them sef. What you require more is self-assurance and social skills
2) I Don’t Have Time for Girls Now:
I hear this all the time and all I see is a gentleman who is disappointed about his inability to effectively speak to a lady. I mean is there any such thing as a different time you have to have for a lady? Lolz… Gentlemen please correct me on what it really means to have time for ladies. You ask a fellow “What of your better half?”. He goes like “Which sweetheart, I don’t have their time oo”. When I hear this I simply chuckle!
3) Girls are a Distraction:
Like seriously ? You that has been jobless for a long time after graduation, how is it a young lady’s issue? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not young ladies. Why every one of these footballers, artists, performers, financiers, specialists, oil gentlemen that I see change chicks like wrapper don’t get diverted, na u come dey get disracted. My man forget excuse and do the needful.
4) Women bring Badluck:
I don’t even know what to say in regards to this one. You hear men say that on the off chance that you need
to make it in life, forget ladies. Amusing thing is, they can’t! The more they attempt, the more they fizzle. Men and ladies have been made to “complete” one another so my fellow, unless you’re gay.
5) She’s excessively Pompous/disrespectful:
No my guy, you’re excessively hesitant, that is reality. You have the privilege to woo any lady you like,
she has the privilege to concur or oppose this idea. Try not to give away your right, exercise it! Between, exploration has demonstrated that women who appear to be excessively self important are generally much less demanding, making it impossible to persuade than men tend to think.
6) I can’t Satisfy her Sexually:
Most guys won’t voice out this reason by any stretch of the imagination, just to close companions in the event that
he’s the exceptionally open sort. This however is not a substantial reason. How would you know you can’t fulfill her sexual desires? How would you even know she’s after s3x? Must you Bleep each young lady you date? Enough said joo.
7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian:
All na wash! So of the considerable number of a large number of ladies in Naija, you can’t find a suitable one
for yourself, na for remote area you go see am? My fellow, your issue no be Naija ladies, your issue is inward. Look yourself and let yourself know the truth!
Cool No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Perhaps you need a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Fellow, if na dependable lady be your reason, why not enter or go to Ifa Chief Priest to show you the way, enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, Mountain of Fire and the different mosques and search for them? Why search for mindful ladies at Allen Junction?
Mtcheeew.
9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys:
You be gay? Yes its great to have a decent affinity with individual fellows, to have a ton of fun and beverage
with gentlemen with no chick around occasionally. Be that as it may, my guy don’t use it as a reason, in light of the fact that soon those your fellows will begin approaching you to go and search for a chick. They will soon begin laughing at you.
#NaijaGist, #Relationship
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